Today's simulation was "orthopedic disability," aka "spend 2.5 hours in a wheelchair and barely get an idea of how hard it is to be confined to one." We had 9 things we had to do during our allotted time period and try not to ask for help and NOT use the explanation that this was for a class. Overall it was difficult in some areas and not noticeable in others.
Task 1: Using an Elevator
This was probably one of the easier tasks, except that it's hard to turn around in some elevators so you end up backing out to get off. One semi-annoyance was that because I'm so used to going up stairs, it was odd to have to find an elevator. It was fine by myself but when my roommate met up with me to study, I had to redirect her to the elevator so we could change locations.
Task 2: Using a Handicap button
The main problem with using a handicap button is that the doors aren't open long enough and the door that opens isn't wide enough to fit a chair through. However, it's WAY easier to use than a standard door. Another thing I noticed is that when leaving a building, the handicap door always went against the flow of traffic.
Task 3: Going Down a Hill
I didn't think going down-hill would bring up any problems but I VERY soon realized that the friction between the wheel-bars/grips and my hands can make for a very painful experience. I instinctively stuck out my foot to stop myself when a nice young man offered, nay insisted, on helping me down the hill. We talked about how he'd had knee surgery and couldn't walk for 6 weeks. He was the only one who didn't ask me why I was in a chair.
Task 4: Drinking Fountain
Getting a drink wasn't terribly hard, and I only got a little dribble of water on my pants. It was about this time that I realized I can't multi-task. I had also filled up my water bottle and instead of walking away and screwing on the lid, I had to sit there and screw the lid on or risk getting water everywhere by putting the open bottle on my lap and wheeling away.
Task 5: Ask for Assistance
There wasn't really ever a need to ask for help. Everyone seemed so willing to pick things up for me, open doors, and push me along. The only thing I had asked for was people to move out of the way when I was trying to get in line for food.
Task 6: Regular Door
I didn't realize how difficult doors can be! Going into the bathroom I tried to swing the door open really far and hoped I could make it. Mid-way through the back swing, I wasn't even close to being through the door and this girl came to my aid. She said her friend was in a wheelchair and knew how hard it could be to open a standard door. Going out was a bit easier. I just charged the door and pulled my self out of the bathroom. I bet I looked like something else...
Task 7: Handicapped Bathroom Stall
**WARNING: Possibly uncomfortable topic**
One word describes this task: IMPOSSIBLE. First, the
handicap stall wasn't big enough to get my chair in there, let along maneuver it around to get me to the toilet. After staring at the thing for a few minutes, I still had no idea how I was going to make this work. How would I transfer myself from my chair to the toilet? If I managed to transfer, how would I maneuver my clothes? I "successfully" got on and "everything" but getting off was another story. So I'll admit, I cheated. I stood up to re-situate myself then transferred back onto my chair.
Initially I thought I'd be able to straddle the toilet, but that would've been fully clothed. So I came home and looked up some handicap toilets but the only modification I found was more handle bars. This still requires a lot of upper-body strength. There needed to be an option that allowed me to slide onto the toilet and allow me to get my pants off. I eventually found this more handicap friendly
toilets (excuse the language in the article, I'm just showing an example of a potentially helpful toilet) but how much would something like this cost? It seems like money causes a lot of problems with the solution shouldn't really be that expensive.
Task 8 & 9: Going Up a Hill/ Help with a Tough Spot
I'm a wuss, so going up the babiest of all baby hills was difficult. I had my roommate with me, mostly for moral support. I was determined to make it up that stupid slight incline even if it killed me. Once I reach the plateau of that and the daddy hill another kind young man pushed me the rest of the way to the top. I felt uncomfortable about him pushing at first but by this point I was too tired to care. (*side note: he eventually asked my roommate on a date. More to come of that? No idea. :P )
Not-So-Final-Thoughts
-Students at BYU-Idaho seem willing to help with EVERYTHING (seriously. I dropped my water bottle and as soon as it hit the ground a young man was offering to help). I really shouldn't have been annoyed because he was kind, but I didn't even have the chance to try for myself. This was a common theme of this experience.
-a young woman thought she recognized me because one of her friends was in a wheel chair... I'm still confused
-Where do I put my phone? How do I better access my backpack? (silly, but those were some questions I had)
-NOTHING IS WIDE ENOUGH FOR WHEELCHAIRS!!! Not line-dividers at restaurants (I literally moved all the poles to make the lane wider), doorways, bathroom stalls, aisles in stores...
-One of the most shocking was how often I was asked "what happened?" It it just me or is that kind of rude? What if I was born without use of my legs, was in an accident or even had advanced MS? Most of the time I just laughed it off and said nothing much or I eventually told them it was for my class. What was there intention behind this question?